Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan

Have you ever looked back at a painful moment in your life and realized it was redirecting you toward something bigger? In this episode, I share the setbacks, heartbreaks, career disappointments, and pivots that changed my life for the better. I break down why so many stay stuck holding onto situations you’ve already outgrown, how fear keeps us settling for less than we deserve, and why the universe often removes what’s comfortable before revealing what’s possible. I also share the mindset shifts to trust new opportunities and stop resisting change. Get ready to trust the redirection, and let

What if the closed door you’re fighting to reopen is actually the thing keeping you from your next breakthrough? In this episode, I share the mindset shift that changed the way I look at rejection, uncertainty, and redirection. I break down how the moments that felt devastating at the time ultimately pushed me toward opportunities I never could have imagined. I also talk about why service and gratitude instantly change your energy, how reflecting like a CEO can help you create better results, and why clinging to what no longer serves you only delays what’s truly meant for you. Get ready to ret

Have you ever stayed quiet just to keep the peace, even when it meant abandoning yourself? In this episode, I open up about a personal situation that forced me to speak my truth, even though it didn’t go the way I hoped. I share why confidence isn’t about controlling the outcome, it’s about having the courage to honor your needs and use your voice anyway. I reflect on friendships, gratitude, personal growth, and why difficult moments can sometimes redirect you toward something even better. Get ready to challenge the stories keeping you silent and step into a more empowered version of yourself.

What if the breakthrough you’ve been praying for is already unfolding, but fear is stopping you from seeing it? In this episode, I share the mindset shifts that can help you navigate massive life changes, unexpected opportunities, and moments of total uncertainty. I break down how faith, surrender, and trusting the process opened doors I never could have forced on my own. I also share why protecting your energy matters, how outgrowing relationships can actually be a sign of growth, and why the people you surround yourself with will either elevate your future or keep you stuck in your past. Get

Have you ever caught yourself thinking you’re behind, not good enough, or questioning if you really belong in the room? In this episode, I break down why those thoughts are actually the biggest sign that you’re stepping into your next level and why your best is still ahead of you. I share how self-doubt, imposter syndrome, and comparison show up for all of us (yes, even in rooms where you feel like the least qualified person there). Remember, when you lean into who you really are, you start attracting the right people, opportunities, and momentum. In This Episode You Will Learn A daily

Have you been holding onto something you know isn’t right for you, but you’re too afraid to let it go? In this episode, I talk about the shift that happens when you stop settling and start choosing what you actually want for your life. I share what it looked like for me to move through uncertainty, make hard decisions, and stay committed to the vision even when things didn’t go as planned. Get ready to let go of what’s no longer working so you can finally step into what’s possible for you. In This Episode You Will Learn Why getting clear on what you don’t want is the first step forward

Ever notice how some people stay positive no matter what’s going on around them? In this episode, I share how choosing joy and gratitude can completely shift your experience, even on the most chaotic days. I also open up about overcoming self-doubt, learning to embrace my voice, and why being fully yourself is always the winning strategy. Tune in and start choosing joy no matter what’s happening around you. In This Episode You Will Learn How to choose gratitude even in stressful situations. A mindset shift that changes your entire day. How your energy impacts the people aro

Have you ever wondered what actually separates top performers from everyone else? In this episode, I break down the mindset shift that separates top performers from the rest, and how quickly they flip their thinking in high-pressure moments. I share ways to say no without guilt, overexplaining, or damaging your relationships. It’s time to shift fast, protect your energy, and start showing up like a top performer. In This Episode You Will Learn How to rewire negative self-talk into confidence. 3 ways to say no without guilt or overexplaining. The mindset shift that helps you

What do you do when everything changes and nothing goes your way? In this episode, I share how I handle uncertainty in real time, from navigating a shifting real estate market to lessons I learned the hard way during the last recession. I break down the 3-step process I use to move through fear, stay grounded, and find opportunity. Plus, I share the mindset shifts, mistakes, and strategies that helped me rebuild, pivot, and grow stronger through every unexpected turn. Get ready to shift your mindset, take control, and start seeing opportunity everywhere. In This Episode You Will Learn

Holding on to something that’s not working anymore? That might be the exact thing blocking what’s next for you. In this episode, I share moments from speaking at the Mental Toughness Forum with leaders like Ben Newman and Ed Mylett that reinforced one simple truth. I also break down the B.A.K. framework to help you shift your beliefs, take messy action when it’s uncomfortable, and pivot your focus toward solutions. I even caught myself reflecting on how powerful this shift is after watching it play out with my own son. Get ready to let go, trust what’s ahead, and go get what’s waiting for you.

Feeling unsure how to navigate your career or money decisions in 2026? FBI Negotiator Chris Voss is back sharing the exact mindset and negotiation strategies he’s used in the highest-stakes situations. From layoffs to tough conversations, he breaks down how your inner dialogue, not your circumstances, is what determines your outcome. We dive into why “no” is actually your advantage, how to avoid the biggest negotiation traps, and the emotional intelligence skills that separate top performers from everyone else. I even found myself rethinking how I approach difficult people and high-pressure si

Have you ever had a moment where something didn’t go the way you planned and you immediately assumed it was a problem? I’ve been there more times than I can count. In this episode, I share a story about my son that completely shifted how I look at challenges, growth, and what’s truly possible when you stop focusing on problems and start finding solutions. I also break down steps you can take to change your life, from creating a plan to practicing gratitude and choosing joy even when it’s not easy. Get ready to stop waiting for things to get easier and start becoming stronger and more confident

What if “making it” doesn’t solve your problems, it just gives you new ones? In this episode, I sit down with Jess Ekstrom, the founder of Headbands of Hope and Mic Drop Workshop, to break down the belief that once you “make it,” everything will finally feel easier, happier, and complete. We talk about the pressure of constantly chasing the next goal, the illusion that success will solve your problems, and how to stop tying your happiness to future outcomes. Jess also shares the idea of choosing problems you actually want to solve, defining your own success fingerprint, and shifting from achie

What if the thoughts holding you back aren’t even yours? In this episode, I sit down with certified clinical hypnotherapist Heather David to talk about how limiting beliefs are formed and how they silently shape your confidence, decisions, and identity. Heather breaks down how to revisit old experiences, separate from them, and step into your power in a completely new way. Tune in if you’re ready to stop judging yourself and release what’s been holding you back. In This Episode You Will Learn Why LIMITING BELIEFS are formed in childhood. How your SUBCONSCIOUS mind influences your

Have you ever looked at someone’s success and thought, “How did that happen so fast?” In this episode, I talk about what success looks like behind the scenes and why comparing yourself to what you see will only slow you down. I share a story from my own life that proves how what looks like an “overnight win” is usually years of setbacks, delays, and persistence that no one talks about. I also break down how to reframe criticism, use it as fuel, and stay focused on your path instead of getting distracted by someone else’s opinion. Get ready to stop comparing, stay in your lane, and keep showing

What if the uncertainty you’re facing right now isn’t something to fear, but the moment that’s meant to move your life forward? In this episode, I share what it looks like to step into the unknown, even when it feels uncomfortable, uncertain, and completely out of your control. I break down how your decisions signal what you’re willing to accept and how choosing yourself can open doors you never saw coming. Get ready to stop resisting uncertainty, trust yourself more, and step boldly into what’s next. In This Episode You Will Learn How your decisions SIGNAL what you’re willing to accep

What if the reason you’re not where you want to be yet isn’t because you’re missing an opportunity, but because you’re looking for a shortcut that doesn’t exist? In this episode, I break down what it actually takes to build success, grow your brand, and create momentum. I share behind-the-scenes stories from building my podcast, launching my speaking career, and creating new revenue streams during one of the most uncertain times in my life. Tune in if you’re ready to stop searching for shortcuts and start building lasting success. In This Episode You Will Learn Why there is NO MAGIC SH

Have you ever walked away from a conversation thinking, “I should have asked for more”? In this episode, I sit down with top negotiation experts Chris Voss, Alex Carter, and Molly Fletcher to break down the strategies that help you get what you deserve without damaging relationships or feeling uncomfortable. We dive into how to build confidence through action, why negotiation starts with the relationship you have with yourself, and how simple shifts can completely transform your outcomes. Get ready to negotiate smarter, communicate more powerfully, and claim the opportunities you’ve been leavi

What if the opportunities you’re waiting for aren’t missing… they’re waiting for you to show up? In this episode, I share stories from my own journey that prove success doesn’t always happen on your timeline, but it does happen when you stay in motion. I also break down why visibility, consistency, and putting yourself out there are the drivers of success. Plus, I share listener stories that will remind you just how much impact you can have, even when you don’t see it yet. Get ready to stop waiting for opportunity and start creating it. In This Episode You Will Learn Why creating more

What if the reason you feel stuck isn’t because life is going wrong, but because you’re resisting what’s actually happening? In this episode, I sit down with Saje Dyer & Serena Dyer Pisoni to talk about what it really means to trust yourself even when life feels uncertain, painful, or completely off track. We dive into why so many of us believe happiness is something we’ll get “one day,” how that belief keeps us stuck, and what shifts when you stop waiting for life to look a certain way before you allow yourself to feel good. Get ready to stop resisting your life, trust where you are, and reco

What if the problem isn’t your skills, but how you see yourself? In this episode, I share a coaching story that will challenge the way you think about confidence, self-worth, and how you show up. I break down how one executive transformed her confidence in just weeks once she became aware of her blind spot and how you can do the same. Get ready to see yourself differently, raise your standards, and start showing up like the person you already are. In This Episode You Will Learn How staying in the same circles creates BLIND SPOTS. Why investing in yourself is the fastest way to LE

Have you ever felt stuck trying to come up with a great idea, and the harder you think, the worse it gets? In this episode, I sit down with Jeremy Utley, Director of Executive Education at Stanford d.school, to break down the science of creativity and why breakthrough thinking isn’t reserved for “creative people.” Jeremy explains why the best innovators, such as Steve Jobs & Benjamin Franklin, focus less on finding the perfect idea and more on generating a higher volume of ideas. We talk about how creativity really works, why bad ideas are actually the gateway to great ones, and how changing y

What do you do when someone disrespects you at work, and you need to stand up for yourself without losing your composure? In this episode, I unpack one of the lessons I’ve learned in business and life. I share the story of the day I was unexpectedly fired after 14 years at my company, and how choosing to respond instead of react completely shifted the power dynamic in the room. I also talk about dealing with workplace bullying and what to do when you’re treated with disrespect at work. Tune in to learn how to stay calm under pressure, stand up for yourself with confidence, and turn moments tha

What actually makes people happy and healthy over the course of a lifetime? In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Mark Schulz, Associate Director of the Harvard Study of Adult Development, to share the findings from the Harvard study that breaks down why the quality of our relationships has the greatest impact on our happiness, health, and even how long we live. We also talk about loneliness, the role of friendships and everyday connections, and why it’s never too late to strengthen the relationships that matter most. Get ready to rethink happiness and discover why the strongest predictor of a

What happens when someone searches your name in AI? In today’s digital world, your personal brand is no longer optional. In this episode, I sit down with personal brand strategist and founder of The Borden Group, Melanie Borden, to break down why leaders, founders, and professionals must build a visible digital footprint to stay relevant in the AI era. Melanie shares how she went from having zero digital presence to building a personal brand that attracted inbound opportunities, media features, and launching her own company. Plus, we talk about the steps you can take right now to position your

What if I told you it wasn’t failure holding you back, but leaving yourself a way out? If you’ve been hesitating, overthinking, or keeping a “just in case” backup plan, this episode will challenge you to rethink risk, trust your insight, and commit fully to the future you want. I sit down with entrepreneur, investor, Harvard Business School executive fellow, and Shark Tank guest shark Matt Higgins to talk about the mindset behind the “Burn the Boats” philosophy, why seeking validation often signals fear rather than strategy, how processing worst-case scenarios eliminates hesitation, and why an

What if confidence isn’t about personality, but about the signals you send every single day? Get ready to stop sending accidental signals and start communicating with purpose so you can show up powerfully in every room you enter. In this episode, I sit down with behavioral researcher, and communication expert Vanessa Van Edwards to talk about the subtle signals shaping how people perceive your confidence, credibility, and leadership before you even speak. Vanessa shares the formula behind influence, how balancing warmth and competence unlocks trust, authority, and opportunity in business and l

Why do we suddenly need something the moment we hear “limited time,” “only a few left,” or “exclusive access”? In this episode, I sit down with digital marketing expert and psychologist Dr. Mindy Weinstein to talk about the psychology behind scarcity and why it drives some of your fastest decisions, strongest desires, and biggest purchases. Mindy breaks down the science behind FOMO, how scarcity impacts decision-making at a neurological level, and why businesses use ethical scarcity to build demand, community, and excitement. Tune in to understand how scarcity can transform the way you sell, b

What if confidence isn’t something you’re born with, but something you can practice into existence? In this episode, I sit down with world-renowned voice coach Caroline Goyder to break down the science and strategy behind powerful speaking. With over 9 million views on her TED Talk, Caroline shares how she went from being told she had “no presence” and a “thin voice” at drama school to becoming one of the most trusted experts in voice, gravitas, and executive presence. We also dive into breathing techniques that override your nervous system, the "Mafia secret" to stage presence, and why the mo

What if the reason your manifestations aren’t landing isn’t your mindset, but your home? In this episode, I sit down with world-renowned Feng Shui master and The Secret teacher Marie Diamond to talk about the powerful third pillar of manifestation and how your space acts as a 24/7 subconscious vision board. She shares shifts you can make immediately to activate wealth, love, health, and new opportunities. Get ready to look at your home with brand-new eyes and unlock the manifestations that may already be waiting for you. In This Episode You Will Learn Why MANIFESTATION is incomplete wi

You are not afraid of public speaking. You’re afraid of being judged, rejected, embarrassed, or getting it wrong. In this episode, John Assaraf, entrepreneur, brain performance researcher, and founder of MyNeuroGym, breaks down what’s happening inside your brain when fear, anxiety, procrastination, or self-doubt kick in, why 95% of what we think, feel, and do is automatic, and how to interrupt those patterns without relying on willpower. We talk about rewiring habits, strengthening your “neuromuscles,” why stress chemicals only last 90 seconds if you don’t feed them, and how to rewire your “Fr

What if your anxiety, overthinking, people-pleasing, or self-doubt isn’t a personality flaw, but subconscious programming you picked up years ago? In this episode, I sit down with board-certified hypnotists Todd and Gina Goodwin to talk about what’s really happening beneath the surface when you feel stuck. We break down why willpower doesn’t work long-term, how trauma imprints on the subconscious mind, and why so many high achievers are unknowingly driven by insecurity instead of inspiration. Get ready to clear the subconscious patterns holding you back and move forward with effortless confide

What if the only thing standing between you and your dream is a story you made up about how it will end? In this episode, I sit down with executive coach, bestselling author, and speaker Ryan Leak to talk about the dangerous habit of pre-calculating failure and talking ourselves out of our own potential. Ryan shares the story behind his documentary Chasing Failure, including how he convinced an NBA team to let him try out (yes, really) and what he learned when he didn’t make it. We dive into why successful people are more willing to “sit in the bookstore alone,” how to stop overcomplicating yo

What happens when the identity you’ve built your entire life is taken away overnight? In this episode, I sit down with former NFL player, broadcaster, and author Eric Wood to talk about resilience, reinvention, and how to build a meaningful next chapter when life forces you to pivot. Eric shares his journey from being a late-blooming athlete to a first-round NFL draft pick, and how a career-ending neck injury reshaped everything he thought success looked like. We dive into stacking small wins, overcoming imposter syndrome, and why preparation creates belief in yourself. Get ready to see why th

Most people don’t realize they’re building a job until it’s too late. In this episode, I sit down with entrepreneur, investor, and philanthropist Candy Valentino to break down the difference between being self-employed and building a business that creates freedom, wealth, and optionality. Candy shares why so many entrepreneurs end up in golden handcuffs, how social media glamorizes entrepreneurship without telling the truth, and why intention matters more than hustle. Get ready to stop trading time for money and start building something that works for you. In This Episode You Will Learn

What if everything you’ve been taught about leadership is outdated? In this episode, I sit down with CNBC senior correspondent and author, Julia Boorstin, to break down what she discovered after interviewing hundreds of the world’s most innovative CEOs. Julia shares why women receive only a fraction of venture capital funding, how “pattern matching” quietly shapes who gets opportunities, and why today’s volatile world demands a new kind of leader. We also talk about humility, adaptability, and why dialing down your confidence in moments of crisis can make you a stronger decision-maker. Get rea

Confidence isn’t something you earn, it’s something you build. In this episode, I sit down with Nicole Kalil, aka the “Confidence Sherpa,” to talk about the biggest lie that has been told that confidence comes from promotions, paychecks, perfect bodies, or other people’s approval. Nicole shares why confidence is rooted in trust, how living inauthentically drains your self-belief, and why mistakes, missteps, and discomfort are not confidence killers. Get ready to stop chasing validation, release perfectionism, and learn how to create confidence that no one can take away. In This Episode You

What if the pressure to be “special” is actually what’s keeping you stuck? In this episode, I sit down with bestselling author Mark Manson to talk about why success doesn’t cure anxiety, how your ego fights change, and why transformation feels long before it feels empowering. Mark shares the thinking behind The Subtle Art of Not Giving an F-bomb documentary, the personal stories that shaped it, and why realizing you’re not unique in your struggles is actually liberating. Get ready to stop chasing perfection, release the pressure to be extraordinary, and find freedom in being human. In This

What if the thing that feels like your biggest setback is actually the doorway to your purpose? In this episode, I sit down with Sprinkles Founder, Candace Nelson, to talk about how alignment, intention, and a bigger WHY fueled everything from launching the world’s first cupcake bakery to creating the iconic Cupcake ATM. She also breaks down the mindset behind her new book, Sweet Success, offering a roadmap for anyone who feels stuck, burned out, or unsure of their next move. Get ready to rethink failure, and reconnect with what lights you up. In This Episode You Will Learn Why ALIGNME

What if the life you’re living right now is only a tiny sliver of what’s actually possible? In this powerful episode, I sit down with spiritual trailblazer Michael Beckwith to talk about what it means to awaken your consciousness and reclaim your mind. Michael shares his extraordinary awakening experience and breaks down spiritual practices you can use to shift your mindset, elevate your vibration, and step into your highest potential. Tune in to learn how to release fear-based thinking, stop letting the media hijack your mind, and tap into the infinite possibilities that already exist for you

Success isn’t about grinding harder, it’s about shifting how you think, who you surround yourself with, and how you show up every single day. In this episode, I sit down with entrepreneur, investor, and podcast host Chris Harder to talk about the mindset shifts that completely transformed his life after losing everything during the 2008 recession. Chris shares how being fired became his greatest gift, the financial rules he and his wife now live by, and why multiple income streams are no longer optional. We dive deep into the connection between spirituality and success, the power of small dail

Confidence isn’t about being polished, it’s about being believable. In this episode, I sit down with Kim Rittberg, a former media executive turned content strategist, to break down why video feels so intimidating and how to use it anyway to grow your business, build trust, and stand out online. We talk about why the camera triggers self-doubt even in high performers, how to stop overthinking your content, and why your STORY matters more than perfect delivery. Kim shares frameworks to help you get comfortable on camera, clarify your message, and turn content into connection without feeling sale

Change doesn’t knock politely. It shows up fast, disrupts your identity, and forces you to question what’s next even when you thought you’d finally “made it.” In this episode, I sit down with Jason Feifer, Editor-in-Chief of Entrepreneur Magazine to break down why change feels so destabilizing and how to move through it without panic, paralysis, or clinging to the past. Jason shares the 4 phases everyone experiences during change, why panic is normal (even for high performers), and how to reframe disruption as opportunity instead of loss. Get ready to stop fearing change and start building for

Life rarely unfolds the way we expect, and that’s exactly where the MAGIC lives. In this episode, Kelley Tyan and I talk about what happens when people change for the better, how forgiveness frees you more than anyone else, and why staying OPEN to possibility can shift everything even after years of tension, unanswered questions, or unmet expectations. We also dive into faith versus religion, the power of environment on your mindset, how to handle uncomfortable conversations with grace, and why the people you surround yourself with shape what you believe is possible. Get ready to see how openn

You don’t need all the answers, you need alignment. In this episode, I sit down with mentor and speaker Suzanne Adams to break down what frequency means, why your LOGICAL mind often blocks your biggest breakthroughs, and how to create results by leading from your HEART instead of force. We talk about moving through burnout, depression, and disconnection, learning how to feel again instead of numbing out, and why awareness is the FIRST step to changing anything. Get ready to rethink how success is built and why momentum starts on the inside. In This Episode, You Will Learn How to TURN U

Most people chase opportunities, but the most successful people create them by how they show up for others. In this episode, I sit down with my dear friend and performance coach Jordan Montgomery to break down the real mechanics of connection, influence, and service. We talk about why the most connected people are the ones constantly promoting others, connecting people to opportunities, and giving without expectation. Jordan shares a weekly framework that has quietly opened doors to rooms most people never get invited into, and I share stories of how showing up with generosity, even when the p

Feel stuck? This episode is all about thinking bigger than the problems in front of you. Wendy Smith and Marianne Lewis, co-authors of Both/And Thinking, are back to explore how the toughest challenges in leadership, work, and life often aren’t either/or problems, they’re paradoxes. We talk about how to shift the questions you’re asking, why confidence is built through discomfort, and how “yes, and” thinking can open up new possibilities. We also go deeper into what both/and looks like in emotionally charged conversations, and how to lead with compassion when the stakes feel high. In This E

Success gets a lot quieter at the top and that’s exactly the point. In this episode, I sit down with business strategist and seven-figure CEO Kelly Roach to break down why so many driven entrepreneurs stay stuck, burned out, or second guessing themselves long after they’ve “done everything right.” We talk about the perception gap that keeps people grinding when they’re actually growing, why building wealth requires rewriting beliefs most of us inherited without questioning, and how chasing outside approval quietly derails confidence. Kelly also shares what really happens on the road to scale,

The same thoughts that surface when you avoid silence are often the ones quietly controlling your confidence, decisions, and direction. In this episode, I sit down with mindset expert Colin O’Brady to talk about how the thoughts you avoid in silence are often the same ones quietly shaping your decisions, confidence, and direction in life. We dive into why most people fear stillness, how responsibility and fear can disguise themselves as “logic,” and why being uncomfortable is often a sign you’re right on the edge of a breakthrough. Get ready to confront your limiting beliefs, reconnect with yo

If you’ve ever held yourself back because you’ve felt like an imposter, this episode is for you! My guest, Michelle “Mace” Curran, shares her story of breaking through self-doubt, fear, and imposter syndrome performing at the highest level as a former Lead Solo for the Air Force Thunderbirds. She breaks down powerful lessons in asking for help, seeing your differences as your strengths, and building trust and team culture as a high-achieving leader. Here’s how to overcome your biggest fears and become the most confident, successful version you were always meant to be! In This Episode You Wi