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The gang is back with a brand-new Ask, Tell, Confess, and this episode is all about new beginnings, healing, and embracing the next chapter. Just days after surgery, Bunnie shares a life update, from her latest procedure to the exciting news that she's officially heading back to school at ASU for an online double major. And for everyone with something to say about her next chapter? She has a few thoughts of her own. She also opens up about taking down the viral divorce episode, explaining why protecting her peace became more important than chasing views and why she's no longer willing to let o

Internet favorite and TLC's Baylen Out Loud star Baylen Dupree-Dooley joins Bunnie alongside her husband, Colin Dooley, for a conversation that's funny, emotional, and guaranteed to change the way you think about Tourette syndrome. Baylen gets real about married life, navigating endometriosis while dreaming about future babies, and why GLP-1 medications have helped her with so much more than just weight loss. She also opens up about living with bipolar disorder and OCD, including the exposure therapy that literally had her rubbing horse shit on her hands to overcome her fear of germs. Then the

The gang is back for another Ask, Tell, Confess, and this week nothing is off-limits. Bunnie, Meme, Hailee, and Jaime kick things off catching up on tornado warnings, Bunnie's latest "home improvements," and the unexpected life updates that somehow go completely off the rails. Then it's time for your workplace horror stories. From the infamous "cereal pooper" and assembly line disasters to coworkers behaving badly, these confessions had everyone gagging, laughing, and questioning humanity. If you've ever survived a nightmare coworker, worked a job that tested your sanity, or wondered how some

Suede joins Bunnie for a brutally honest conversation, pulling back the curtain on Calabasas Confidential and revealing what was real, what producers scripted, and why she's done being painted as the villain. She clears up the Gemma and Dylan drama, breaks down that infamous beach scene, and shares how childhood bullying led her to build an online empire before reinventing herself on TikTok. Then things get spicy. Suede addresses the Scott Disick rumors, opens up about Kid Cudi, and finally tells the full story behind Drake, the yacht, the hookup, and the texts that left her scared to leave he

The gang is back! Just one week after the divorce episode blew past 3 million views, Bunnie and the crew return for another chaotic Ask, Tell, Confess. From girls’ nights out and bare-knuckle fights to fully stepping into the single era, nothing is off-limits. Bunnie spills on the wild wave of DMs she’s gotten since the split, sharing everything from blue-check disasters and unexpected admirers to the sweet messages from women who have been riding for her through it all. The gang breaks down what actually works when sliding into someone’s DMs, what instantly gives them the ick, and some of the

Throwback Thursday (Originally aired: 6/5/24) Bunnie is joined by the sweet and brilliant Mod Sun, as he talks about everything from facing heartbreak and addiction to finding purpose through his music and art. Mod reflects on his journey from farm boy to rockstar, hitting rock bottom and how he manifested success. He talks about past romances in the public eye, his soul bestie Machine Gun Kelly, Bob Dylan, and why it's okay to be delusional. Mod also shares a sneak peek into his new music and the reinvention that came along with it.  Mod Sun: IG | Website Watch Full Episodes & More: YouTube S

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Throwback Thursday (Originally aired: 4/3/24) This week, legendary skateboarder and Jackass star Bam Margera gets candid about battling addiction and embracing sobriety. He opens up about the "Florida Shuffle" he endured in rehab, as well as the legal battles we've both seen and not seen reported in the news. Bam also reflects on life after skyrocketing to fame with Jackass in the early 2000s. Joining Bam for the raw conversation is his model fiancée Dannii Marie, to share her own perspective on their chance meeting in LA and travels across the country together that have brought them to this n

(Originally aired: 8/12/24) Elle King is a boss, and leaves no stone unturned in her vulnerable conversation with Bunnie this week. Elle opens up about what really happened at the Grand Ole Opry performance that went viral, Dolly Parton's kind words that helped turn things around, and how she started her journey of healing and self work. She reflects on her unique upbringing as the daughter of comedian Rob Schneider, sharing both the fun and challenges that came with growing up in the spotlight. She also shares her experiences with motherhood, including the ups and downs with her baby daddy, a

This Ask, Tell, Confess compilation is packed with some of the wildest, most unhinged listener confessions we've ever aired. From pegging disasters and office bathroom confessions to explosive "ooey gooey" mishaps and one unforgettable night with a very grateful granny, these stories prove that nothing is off-limits in the Coven. You'll hear tales of porn addictions, stall peeping, ping-pong-ball tricks, accidental self-inflicted disasters, embarrassing bathroom moments, questionable kinks, and plenty of confessions that should've probably stayed secret. If you're new to ATC, welcome to the ch

Throwback Thursday (Originally aired: 9/8/25) This week Bunnie sits down with Johnny 3 Tears and Charlie Scene from Hollywood Undead for a raw, unfiltered conversation. The guys look back on their early days—from first concerts and parental influence to the chaos of addiction and life-changing lessons. They open up about the band’s struggles, including Deuce’s dramatic exit and legal fallout, and how those hurdles shaped their journey. Despite the setbacks, Hollywood Undead has kept its brotherhood intact, now rolling strong with J-Dog, Funny Man, Johnny 3 Tears, Charlie Scene, and Danny. They

(Originally aired: 7/7/25) This week, the one and only Wiz Khalifa brings the chill - and a smile that could light up the world. The multi-platinum rapper, father, and certified smooth operator sits down with Bunnie to talk growing up in a military family, dad life, and his deeper purpose: spreading joy. He opens up about how his parents’ divorce shaped him, and how it influences the way he co-parents today. Wiz shares his approach to staying calm, and how he finds healing through music, hot yoga, MMA, and morning routines. He also talks about the release of Kush & Orange Juice 2, the long-awa

On this episode of Ask, Tell, Confess, the Coven spirals over an upcoming Jackson Hole adventure and a whitewater rafting trip that may or may not end in disaster. From gut feelings and near-miss accidents to theories about timelines, manifestations, and why life suddenly feels like it's 2008 again, the conversation goes completely off the rails before the confessions even begin. Then it's on to the listener stories: a shocking ER confession involving household objects, a wedding-night surprise that leaves everyone speechless, and an unfiltered conversation about body care, confidence, boundar

Throwback Thursday (Originally aired: 3/3/25) Bunnie sits down with the beautiful KT Smith, and trust us—if you've heard a rumor about her, she’s clearing it up right here. KT opens up about her whirlwind engagement to Morgan Wallen, the cheating rumors, and what co-parenting in the spotlight is really like. She also sets the record straight on her marriage (and split) from Luke Scornavacco, plus all the internet drama that came with it. KT gets real about the viral car accident with Caden McGuire, her rise on social media, the story of how she got saved and found Jesus, and why she’s stepping

Koe Wetzel sits down with Bunnie Xo for one of his most honest conversations yet. From East Texas dive bars to sold-out arenas, Koe opens up about the changes that transformed his life—cutting back on drinking, getting healthy, becoming a dad, and creating his new album, Night Champion. He shares stories from his wild early days, growing up in a musical family, playing college football, getting kicked out of school, spending time in jail, and taking the ultimate gamble on a music career when everything started to take off. Koe and Bunnie dive into the highs and lows of touring, the pressure of

On this episode of Ask, Tell, Confess, the Coven dives into some of the most outrageous listener stories yet. From hookup disasters, balcony adventures, strip club confessions, and absolutely horrifying bathroom mishaps to questionable hygiene habits that will leave you speechless, this episode goes completely off the rails. But beneath the laughs, there's also a powerful and emotional confession from a woman navigating life while her husband serves a life sentence after protecting their daughter. The Coven opens up about loyalty, sacrifice, prison relationships, and the difficult reality of c

Throwback Thursday (Originally aired: 6/9/25) This week, Bunnie brings on her personal doctor and friend, Dr. Leah Cordovez - a calm, no-BS physician who blends science and nature to actually know her patients. They talk about Dr. C’s wild journey from Panama to private practice, what it’s like treating Bunnie’s weekly “emergencies,” and why the bond between doctor and patient matters more than we think. Dr. C also answers your questions about sleep, endometriosis, weight, poop (yes, really), and how to actually feel better without shame, shortcuts, or guesswork. Dr. Cordovez: Be Well Watch Fu

Delilah, one of the most iconic voices in American radio, sits down with Bunnie Xo for a raw, emotional, and surprisingly funny deep dive into the life behind her legendary late-night show. With 8–10 million weekly listeners, she’s been the comforting voice in America’s bedrooms for decades—but here she opens up in a way you rarely hear. In this episode, Delilah talks about growing up with a high-functioning alcoholic father and a codependent mother, discovering secret half-siblings just miles away, and even being duct-taped by a teacher for talking too much—only to turn that “problem” into a

On this episode of Ask Tell Confess, the Coven cracks open the DMs and dives into some of the wildest anonymous confessions yet. From disastrous hookups and unhinged bedroom requests to “did that really happen?” horror stories and full-on relationship chaos, Bunnie Xo, Meme, Hailee, and Jaime react with zero filter. They call out red flags, hard dealbreakers, questionable kinks, and the moments you know it’s time to walk away, all with their signature mix of brutal honesty and unhinged humor. Watch Full Episodes & More: YouTube See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Pri

Throwback Thursday (Originally aired: 4/21/25) This week, Bunnie sits down with hip-hop icon Tech N9ne to go deep into his life and legacy. From growing up in a religious household in the Wayne Minor projects to becoming one of the most successful independent artists of all time, Tech opens up about his roots. He shares stories about his mother’s epilepsy and schizophrenia, surviving an abusive stepfather, finding sobriety, and why he’s still smiling behind the mic decades into his career. They talk about everything from his signature rapid-fire flow to building a loyal fan base without ever g

Throwback episode (Originally aired: 8/19/24) The one and only Miranda Lambert is in the house this week! Miranda opens up about her journey to stardom, from her humble roots in Texas to becoming a trailblazing force in the music industry, also helping the next generation of female artists. Plus, she chats about her new album "Postcards from Texas," her Vegas residency, co-founding the Big Loud Texas label, her charity organization Mutt Nation, and how she's juggling it all, including life with her hubby, Brendan. Miranda Lambert: Website | IG | Spotify | MuttNation | Idyllwind | Postcards fro

Buckle up, babes. The Coven is back with another absolutely unhinged episode of Ask, Tell, Confess. From cucumber-and-condom mysteries at Zaxby’s to revenge marriages, OnlyFans love stories, public hookup confessions, and a pool prank gone horribly wrong… this one spirals FAST. The Coven reacts to wild listener stories, chaotic relationship drama, embarrassing bedroom disasters, and the kind of no-filter conversations you can only get on ATC. Equal parts hilarious, shocking, and way too relatable. Watch Full Episodes & More: YouTube See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and Californi

Throwback Thursday (Originally aired: 11/16/25) Bunnie Xo sits down with Pastor Kimberly Jones for a powerful conversation about faith, redemption, and breaking generational patterns. Kimberly opens up about growing up in a strict Pentecostal home, the religious trauma she carried, and the years she spent running from the church. She shares her battle with addiction, her experience navigating multiple marriages, and the rock-bottom moments that ultimately led to her transformation. Kim reflects on the unlikely journey from a party girl who rejected religion to a pastor inspired by Rod Parsley’

On this special stop of the Stripped Down Book Tour, Bunnie Xo celebrates becoming a New York Times bestselling author after selling over 200,000 books in a single week. From her days in Las Vegas to building a life, career, and sold-out tour in Nashville, Bunnie opens up about the journey that changed everything. The night is packed with unforgettable moments, surprise guests, comedy, live music, and raw conversations. Wiz Khalifa hits the stage to talk about music, fatherhood, fame, and his love for weed, while also delivering an epic performance. Bert Kreischer brings the chaos and honesty,

The Coven is back and this episode goes COMPLETELY off the rails. Hailee opens up about her 72-pound weight loss journey and how much it’s changed her confidence, daily life, and mindset. The girls also get real about filters, photo editing, and the pressure social media puts on everybody. They celebrate Bailee’s prom queen win and sweet relationship moments before diving into this week’s wild confessions… including a man asking for advice about his micro penis, a mortifying church accident, and two brothers who admit they SNORTED their dad’s ashes. Nothing could’ve prepared us for this one. W

Throwback Thursday (Originally aired: 12/14/25) Bunnie Xo sits down with Dog the Bounty Hunter and his wife, Francie Chapman, for a raw and powerful conversation about faith, loss, redemption, and life in the public eye. Dog opens up about his complicated childhood, revealing that the man he believed to be his biological father was not—and sharing how an abusive upbringing and time running with the Devil’s Disciples ultimately led him to find purpose as a bounty hunter and man of faith. Francie speaks candidly about the devastating loss of her grandson and the pain of grieving under intense me

Bunnie Xo sits down with Skylar Grey… and this one goes deeper than expected, From almost walking away from music to working with Eminem and Dr. Dre, Skylar opens up about the pressure, the hate, and the reality behind success. Her new album Wasted Potential (May 22) is her most personal yet touching on childhood, growth, and the parts of her story she’s never fully shared. But then the convo shifts. She reveals her newest project “Fawn” an AI designed to help people process emotions. Bunnie is shook, and things get real about AI, creativity, and where all of this is headed. Music, healing, te

The Coven is back and whewww… this one goes there. Bunnie Xo gets real about being cyberstalked and dealing with nonstop online hate—and how hard it is not to clap back. The girls dive into cyberbullying, how social media turns into a weapon, and how it’s impacting creators like Alex Earle and Alex Cooper. And the confessions? Absolutely feral. A guy dating his ex’s MOM, a risky Snapchat prank that backfires, and a secret lifestyle that leaves everyone shook. No filters, no judgment… just straight chaos. You already know this one gets wild. Watch Full Episodes & More: YouTube See Privacy Polic

Throwback Thursday (Originally aired: 8/18/25) Bunnie Xo sits down with Martin Riese, America’s first certified water sommelier, to unpack the myths, science, and politics behind what we drink. Bunnie shares her own viral “water debacle” and what she learned from testing different sources, while Martin breaks down the subtleties of water taste profiles, the role of TDS (Total Dissolved Solids), and the environmental toll of bottled water. Together, they clear the air on false claims about Mountain Valley’s arsenic levels and stress the need for transparency and fact-checking in the industry. M

Bunnie XO brought the party to Nashville for a sold-out live show packed with surprises, celebrity guests, wild confessions, and unforgettable performances. After selling out in just two hours, Bunnie reflects on her journey from Vegas girl to bestselling author. Special guests included Wynonna Judd, Leo Skepi, Bunnie’s twin sister Tammy, and The Coven for a chaotic Ask, Tell, Confess segment fans won’t forget. Bunnie and Jelly Roll opened up about their early Nashville days, second chances, and the healing power of honesty. Plus, Bunnie hints at future projects—including turning her book into

On this episode of Ask, Tell, Confess, the Coven is back with another chaotic round of confessions, wild stories, and unfiltered laughs. Bunnie tells the hilarious story of her husband boldly singing the wrong Creed lyrics, while Hailee admits to hooking up with a rock band singer in an alley. Then the girls react to one of the craziest listener submissions yet—a woman who found out her dad is also her brother’s dads best friend. They also dive into cheating, toxic relationships, and why some people keep going back after being betrayed again and again. Messy, shocking, hilarious… just how you

Throwback Thursday (Originally aired: 1/4/26) This week, Bunnie Xo sits down with comedy powerhouse Bert Kreischer for a wildly unfiltered conversation that goes everywhere—and then some. Bert opens up about his recent health and weight-loss journey, including experimenting with Mounjaro, peptides, and GLP-based treatments, along with the very real (and very graphic) side effects no one warns you about. The two also dive deep into mental health, sharing candid experiences with OCD, anxiety, medication, and exposure therapy. Bert breaks down his long-standing rituals, flying anxieties, and the

Bunnie Xo hosts her first-ever live show, celebrating her book ranking #4 globally while reflecting on the journey that got her here. From growing up in Vegas to her obsession with the mafia and Mob Wives, she takes the audience through the wild, unfiltered moments that shaped her story. Things really heat up when Renee Graziano, Karen Gravano, and Ramona Rizzo hit the stage—spilling stories and hinting at what’s next for the iconic franchise. Bunnie gets vulnerable about her childhood, sharing deeply personal moments and opening up about becoming the woman she needed growing up. From personal

On this episode of Ask, Tell, Confess, the girls are back with wild stories, real talk, and zero filter. From a chaotic motocross trip to the culture differences between Nashville and the West Coast, they break down the rise of the “bro ho” and everything that comes with it. Things get hilarious fast—makeup wipes mistaken for baby wipes, a ping pong ball incident you won’t believe, and plenty of moments that have everyone crying laughing. But in true ATC fashion, they also get into the deeper stuff—girl code, social media drama, and the struggle of staying authentic online. Watch Full Episodes

This was filmed in 2021, and I’m so glad I was able to. I was beyond nervous, and we already had a rocky relationship, so I tried to keep it lighthearted and fun. But I was also SO nervous, as you can see. Either way, here are some bits and pieces of my life from the man who gave me life. Love y’all! 🩷 Watch Full Episodes & More: YouTube See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Bunnie Xo and the Coven are back with another unfiltered Ask, Tell, Confess—and this one gets wild. From chaotic dating stories to jaw-dropping confessions, nothing is off limits. One listener shares a pepper spray situation that somehow turns into a hookup, while Hailee recounts her own accidental pepper spray incident at a hookah bar that had everyone shook. The group dives into secrets about relationships, honesty, and addiction, reacting in real time to some of the most shocking submissions yet. If you love messy, real, and completely unfiltered conversations—this episode delivers. Watch

Throwback Thursday (Originally aired: 11/2/25) Step into the world of daytime TV royalty as Bunnie is joined by the legendary Maury Povich. In this candid conversation, Maury takes us through his unforgettable journey from the newsroom to becoming a cultural phenomenon, thanks to outrageous teen drama and those iconic “You are NOT the father!” moments. He shares standout memories — including a powerful interview with Muhammad Ali — and opens up about the meaningful adoption journey he and Connie Chung experienced together. Maury also weighs in on social media’s impact, the value of local journ

Bunnie Xo opens up about her recent facelift—getting real about the pain, swelling, and what recovery actually looks like. From not being able to fully smile to needing lymphatic massages, she shares the raw, unfiltered truth behind the healing process. She also spills on her viral moment on Jimmy Kimmel, where her Jack Black impression took over the internet, and celebrates her book staying on the New York Times bestseller list for five weeks straight. Plus, the Coven gets personal and chaotic—Meme talks about her struggles with depression (and her new pet turkeys), Hailee delivers her signat

On this episode of Ask, Tell, Confess, the Coven opens up about the real-life struggles that shaped them—dyslexia, autism, and deep-rooted trauma. Meme gets honest about having to rewatch and reread things just to fully process information, while Bunnie shares how those challenges don’t define your future. The conversation takes a wild turn as Bunnie answers questions inspired by her book—including the jaw-dropping amount she made in a single night ($100,000) and the complicated family dynamics she’s navigated along the way. From chaos to clarity, this episode dives into growth, resilience, an

Throwback Thursday (Originally aired: 9/29/25) Bunnie Xo sits down with comedian and boudoir photographer Matt Mathews for a candid and often hilarious conversation about friendship, authenticity, and life in the spotlight. The two bond over their shared quirks—like avoiding pubic hair and red carpets—while digging into deeper topics of mental health, addiction awareness, and the challenges of staying true to yourself in a social media-driven world. Matt opens up about his journey from a difficult childhood in Bessemer, Alabama, to becoming a viral TikTok sensation, selling out comedy shows, a

Part 2 - The story takes a dark turn. Bunnie continues her conversation with Larry Birkhead as he opens up about the most intense and heartbreaking chapter of his relationship with Anna Nicole Smith. From their breakup to Anna’s move to the Bahamas, Larry reveals the emotional and financial strain behind her secretive pregnancy—and the fight to be recognized as the father of their daughter. He dives into the media frenzy, legal battles, and the devastating loss of Anna’s son, Daniel, just days after Dannielynn was born. As the world watched, Larry was fighting behind the scenes to prove his pa

Part 1 of a 2-part series Bunnie sits down with former celebrity photographer Larry Birkhead to reveal the untold story of Anna Nicole Smith—beyond the headlines. From their first meeting at the Kentucky Derby to the chaos behind the spotlight, Larry shares what really went down. He opens up about Anna’s private struggles, media misconceptions, wild moments, and the side of her the world never got to see. From love and loss to legal battles and protecting her legacy—this is the real story. From intimate moments and unexpected kindness to public scandals and personal heartbreak, Larry reflects

On this episode of Ask, Tell, Confess, the gang spirals (fast) into absolute chaos. From catching a cheating baby daddy on camera to friends stealing and crossing lines you don’t come back from, the betrayal stories are WILD. Add in unhinged pranks, a pocket bullet gone wrong, and a front yard incident that’ll have you questioning everything… yeah, it gets feral. They close it out with nostalgic, cringe-worthy throwbacks—childhood trauma, middle school madness, and the kind of stories you won't believe actually happened. No filters, no shame, just straight Coven chaos. Watch Full Episodes & Mo

Throwback Thursday (Originally aired: 9/22/25) This week, Bunnie Xo sits down with the legendary Jon Bon Jovi for a conversation that spans his remarkable career and personal journey. He reflects on his new documentary Thank You, Goodnight, tracing his path from humble beginnings in Asbury Park to international stardom. Bon Jovi opens up about the challenges of vocal surgery, the resilience shaped by his parents’ influence, and his bond with Bruce Springsteen. He also teases his upcoming album Bon Jovi Forever, packed with exciting collaborations, and shares his hopes for a future tour. Beyond

Bunnie Xo sits down with Joel Madden of Good Charlotte for a candid conversation about fame, family, and the journey that shaped him. Joel reflects on the band’s early days, growing up in a strict religious household, and how navigating addiction, success, and self-awareness helped him find balance in both his career and personal life. He also opens up about life with Nicole Richie, fatherhood, and the influence Lionel Richie has had as a mentor and father figure. Joel shares the dynamic between him and his twin brother Benji Madden, why mental health and family come before fame, and why he re

On this episode of Ask, Tell, Confess, Bunnie Xo and the crew recap the chaos of the Stripped Down book tour—celebrity drop-ins, sold-out shows, and the surreal moment the book hit the New York Times bestseller list. From Wynonna Judd and Wiz Khalifa to Bert Kreischer, Papa Roach’s Jacoby Shaddix, and Shinedown, the road was full of surprises. The team breaks down unforgettable appearances and shares some wild behind-the-scenes moments from shows in LA, Nashville, and Vegas. They also talk tour chaos, surprise guests, and what’s next for the Coven—including upcoming Ask, Tell, Confessepisodes

Throwback Thursday (Originally aired: 11/30/25) Bunnie sits down with country music legend Craig Morgan for a powerful, emotional, and unexpectedly uplifting conversation. Craig opens up about his journey from growing up in Kingston Springs to serving in the Army and attending the elite Korean Ranger School—experiences that shaped the man and the musician he would become. He shares intimate memories of his humble beginnings, his first hunting trip with his mom, and the moment he realized music was his calling. Craig also reflects deeply on his faith, the loss of his son, and the resilience tha

Bunnie sits down with world-famous medium Theresa Caputo for a raw conversation about what it’s really like living with the ability to communicate with the other side. Theresa opens up about the anxiety she faced growing up, how faith and her parents’ support helped her finally accept her gift, and the misconceptions people still have about mediumship. She also shares the personal side of her journey—from balancing her work with family life to prioritizing her mental and physical health. Theresa talks about trading weightlifting for Pilates, protecting her energy, and the self-care routines th

On this episode of Ask, Tell, Confess – Live from NYC (Bunnie’s Stripped Down Book Tour) the New York stop had the Coven lining up at the mic with zero chill. We heard a White Castle confession that had the whole room reacting, a woman proudly living the no-panties lifestyle for years, an armpit obsession that sent everyone screaming, and a jaw-dropping reveal about a family-run escort operation. Unfiltered, loud, and completely feral—this is the kind of ATC chaos you have to hear to believe. Watch Full Episodes & More: YouTube See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Pri

Throwback Thursday (Originally aired 8/25/25) Country star Carly Pearce gets real about her journey—from her fast rise with Every Little Thing to the heartbreak behind 29. She opens up about anxiety, OCD, divorce, losing producer Busbee, and the challenges of being a woman in country music, all while celebrating her induction into the Grand Ole Opry. Carly also shares her health battle with recurrent pericarditis, how she learned to advocate for herself, and how her new album Hummingbird marks both healing and a return to traditional country roots. Plus, she talks love, resilience, and why aut