How to Build Emotional Resilience: Susanna Calvert on Healing Trauma and Mental Health

Trigger Notice

This episode includes discussion of trauma, mental health challenges, and suicide statistics. If you or someone you love is struggling, help is available. In the U.S., call or text 988 to reach the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. For global resources, visit: https://findahelpline.com

 

What better way to kick off 2026 than with a conversation about emotional resilience? In the very first episode of the new year, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with Susanna Calvert to talk about healing trauma, reclaiming personal power, and learning the skills most of us were never taught — but desperately need.

 

Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads — a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health) and 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast) with over 3.5 million downloads and counting — continues its mission to spark unfiltered conversations about the human mind.

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Mental Health Quote

“Resilience isn’t about being tough or pushing through — it’s about learning how to come home to yourself after life knocks you down.” — Susanna Calvert

 

Episode Description

As the first episode of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads for 2026, this conversation sets the tone for the year ahead — honest, hopeful, and rooted in real tools for mental health. Resilience is often treated like a personality trait — something you either have or you don’t. But Susanna Calvert is here to dismantle that myth and show why emotional resilience is a skill that can be learned, practiced, and strengthened at any stage of life.

In this deeply thoughtful episode, Susanna joins G-Rex and Dirty Skittles to share how her own experiences with generational trauma, spiritual awakening, and repeated “dark nights of the soul” led her to create the Foundation for Family and Community Healing. Drawing from decades in higher education and well-being research, she explains why grit and “toughing it out” aren’t enough — and how unhealed trauma quietly shapes families, schools, workplaces, and entire communities.

The conversation explores why emotional education should be as foundational as reading or math, how kids and adults alike benefit from learning resilience together, and why community-wide healing is the missing piece in today’s mental health crisis. Susanna also introduces the concept of the Hero’s — or “Shiro’s” — Journey, offering a powerful framework for turning crisis into growth and hopelessness into meaning.

This episode is a reminder that healing isn’t about fixing what’s broken — it’s about reclaiming your power, learning new skills, and choosing to grow even when life feels overwhelming. If you’re looking for a grounded, hopeful way to start 2026, this conversation is it.

Keywords: emotional resilience, mental health healing, trauma recovery, generational trauma, resilience skills, emotional wellness, community healing, childhood trauma, mental health education, personal growth, coping skills, self-healing

 

Meet Our Guest — Susanna Calvert

Dr. Susanna (Sanna) Wu-Pong Calvert, MAPP, PhD is the Founder and Executive Director of the Foundation for Family and Community Healing, a nonprofit dedicated to teaching emotional resilience and well-being as learnable life skills. She is also the Founder of Sanctuary of Earth and the Community Director at MentalHealth.com, blending science, education, and spiritual growth to support healing for individuals and communities worldwide.

Connect with Susanna:
Website: http://www.HealingEdu.org
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/familyandcommunityhealing/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/FamilyandCommunityHealing
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sanna-wu-pong-calvert-551b616/

 

Key Takeaways

• Emotional resilience is a skill — not a personality trait.
• Unhealed trauma often gets passed down quietly through generations.
• Grit alone doesn’t heal; awareness and skill-building do.
• Kids and adults learn resilience best when communities heal together.
• A crisis can become a doorway to growth when we’re given the right tools.

 

Actionable Items

• Notice where you’re “pushing through” instead of checking in with yourself.
• Practice naming your emotions without judgment — awareness builds resilience.
• Seek out skill-based mental health resources, not just motivation or inspiration.

 

References Mentioned

• Foundation for Family and Community Healing — http://www.HealingEdu.org
• 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline — https://988lifeline.org
• Global Crisis Resources — https://findahelpline.com

 

Important Chapters

• 00:01 – Why resilience must be taught, not assumed
• 06:40 – Generational trauma and the limits of “being tough”
• 14:30 – Why schools and workplaces miss emotional education
• 23:45 – The Hero’s (Shiro’s) Journey as a healing roadmap
• 31:10 – Social media, overwhelm, and reclaiming personal power
• 37:45 – Hope, healing, and building a better future together

 

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