BS Disclaimers, Invisible Armies, and the Importance of the Words We Choose
Descripción del Episodio
Brené and Adam discuss the power — and peril — of the words we choose. They dive into two Machiavellian communication tools that often do more harm than good: the "Invisible Army" and "BS Disclaimers". Brené explains why leading with “we” or “but” often comes across as requesting permission to escape accountability, which ultimately sacrifices trust more than anything. Adam explores how these tools can sometimes serve as survival strategies in toxic cultures, leading to a conversation on psychological safety, groupthink, and why precision of language is more important than ever — especially in a world that still judges based on gender and identity.
You can find The Curiosity Shop on YouTube and Instagram (@thecuriosityshop).
0:00 - Introduction
1:10 - The Invisible Army
15:23 - Speaking Up and Pluribus
21:26 - ‘But’ or Escaping Accountability?
40:59 - Responsibility Versus Accountability
46:22 - Judgment Based on Gender and Identity
1:01:55 - Takeaways From Today’s Episode
Armored Versus Daring Leadership, Part 2 of 2 - Brené Brown, 2021, Dare to Lead (Podcast)
Plur1bus - Gilligan et al., 2025 - Present, Sony Pictures; Apple TV+ (TV series)
What Makes a 360-Degree Review Successful? -
Zenger and Folkman, 2020, Harvard Business Review
Likeable Badass: How Women Get the Success They Deserve - Fragale, 2024, Doubleday
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